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Are your poor sleep habits wrecking your marriage?

Find out how lack of sleep affects your relationship.

By The Married Chick Jan 25, 2013 11:02PM
Photo: Angry couple // VeerTurns out that under-eye bags and bad hair days aren't the only side effects to poor sleep. Less than stellar sleep patterns actually wreak havoc on your relationship, according to new research.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley studied the role of sleeping patterns in more than 60 couples to analyze the effects of poor sleep on one's gratitude toward their partner. Findings showed that lack of sufficient sleep can leave couples too tired to simple things -- like saying thank you.

“Poor sleep may make us more selfish as we prioritize our own needs over our partner’s,” said Amie Gordon, lead investigator of the study and university psychologist.
The research proved that a lack of shut eye not only leaves you grumpy, (that's what happens when you stay up too late watching "Homeland", ladies!) but you become unappreciative and less in tune with your partner's sensitivities. It doesn't help that between your husband's obnoxious snoring and your tendency to hog the pillows, chances are one of you will wake up refreshed and the other, exhausted.

“You may have slept like a baby, but if your partner didn’t, you’ll probably both end up grouchy,” Gordon said.

I understand it can be hard to show your partner love when you're running on empty, but the least you can do is say thank you when your husband offers to take out the garbage. And please -- for the sake of your marriage -- just pour yourself a cup of coffee.

What annoying sleep habits do you or your partner have?


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Photo: Veer

3Comments
Jan 27, 2013 9:37AM
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Does sound like a man wrote the above and he is trying to be understanding of his wife. Although if she is already grouchy don't know that coffee is going to help.
May 5, 2013 1:19AM
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My Name is Mrs Angela, I was married to my husband for 8years and we were both blessed with three children, living together as one love, until 2013 when things was no longer the way it was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he started sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. since that day, when i called him, he no longer pick up my calls and nothing good seems to come out from him. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the new girl friend till Dr. Orinoko cast a spell for me, now he is back with me and me only. And i am happy with my family if you need his help contact on via email, orinokosolutiontemple1@ gmail.com
Jan 28, 2013 4:51AM
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My ex used to snore like a chain saw. He even kept our kids awake in the other room too. My new partner grinds his teeth, but I usually don't know unless one of the cats he owns wakes me up first. His bad habit is letting them sleep with us.
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