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True love stories: Couple falls in love on Instagram

A picture perfect digital romance that bridges 2,500 miles.

By Kristin Wong Mar 22, 2013 7:29PM

"What's up?"

Those were the simple first words exchanged between Matt Fleming and Robin Coe, a couple who fell in love over Instagram, the popular photo sharing app. 

Matt and Robin followed each other on Instagram and occasionally commented on each other's photos, but there was one particular pic responsible for igniting their romance. 

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It was 2011, and Robin had posted a photo of someone walking a dog through Toronto's cold, wintery landscape. Matt saw this, and it reminded him of his childhood, having grown up in the blustery Midwest. Among her 279,000 followers, Matt finally asked Robin to message him. 

"What's up?" she replied. This prompted Matt to send her an eight-paragraph email about himself and his childhood. 

"He was just so endearing and sincere. I could feel the warmth in his words," Robin, 34, told The Heart Beat. "I'd long been struggling to find my place on this earth, and despite the differences in our individual circumstances, I could relate to every single word. I didn't hesitate to write back."

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Soon enough, the two were regularly emailing while still continuing to view and comment on each other's photos.  In a January 2012 email, Matt, made a bold move: 

"If you want to reach my voice, this is how you get it." 

To say they hit it off would be an understatement. One Skype call between the pair lasted 13 hours—they stayed up all night and finally hung up at 6 a.m. They found themselves in the middle of a full-fledged long distance relationship—Robin was in Toronto and Matt lived in Oakland, Calif. 

On April 24, 2012, the couple finally met in person, The Star reports. Robin captured a photo of Matt upon first seeing him face-to-face. She says it's an odd feeling to see someone for the first time when they simultaneously seem so familiar.

"I couldn't even make eye contact with him. I'm not exaggerating," Robin told us. "For at least an hour, I couldn't look him in the eyes for more than a second or two. I was a flustered, giddy mess."

Since then, the couple has shared their blossoming romance through photos. Earlier this week, for example, Robin posted a photo of a gift from Matt—an illustration of her dog, Gracie. Looking forward to an upcoming trip, she captioned the pic: 

"Have I mentioned lately that long-distance love is like holding your breath, chin tilted up towards a surface that is 36 days away?" 

They say love happens when you least expect it, and that was definitely the case for Robin:

"I was at the end of a five-year-relationship...I was fully immersed in the process of getting comfortable just being on my own. I was happier than I'd been in probably a decade. And, honestly, I think that's why we found each other. I finally had room in my life to let in a little light."
Her tip for maintaining long distance love? 
"We do our best to have our next visit planned before we say goodbye. Those goodbyes are excruciating, and having something concrete to look forward to can ease the pain a bit."
She adds that honesty and communication fuel their relationship, as does not sweating the small stuff. "We're in it together, and we remind each of that every single day," she says.

Here's wishing Robin and Matt the very best in their digital-turned-real-life romance.

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Photo: Robinmay via Instagram

16Comments
Mar 24, 2013 12:31AM
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It is so true love happened when you least expected. Just like " Field of Dream" Don't look, it will come. It was how I met my husband and we have been married for 29 years and our love grows stronger and deeper everyday. Distance relationship is a good test to prove true love, and it is a tru love distance make love grows fonder. I have been working in CA for almost 3 years and our home in Fl. We miss each other but the feeling and the affection for each other never changed. Good luck to Matt and Robin. I can tell your guys will have a nice future together. You made for each other. Look at your photo, it is a match. You both have a very kind loving face.
Mar 24, 2013 2:10AM
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I think they are on the right track. I wish them well. My wife and I met in 1998 online. She was in the USA and I was in Australia. Married 13 years and counting. Honesty and communication are key.

Mar 24, 2013 3:20AM
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Such an amazing story! My husband and I met in a similar circumstance online via a social networking site back in August 2010. It started with just a message from him saying something simple I can't even remember now! Turns out he lived in London and I lived in southern California. To be honest, I don't think either of us thought anyone of it at the time, but messaging turned into emails, which then turned into hours upon hours of Skype calls. We met for the first time in person in October 2010 and, as they say, the rest is history. We were lucky enough to be able to plan trips to see each other every 8 weeks or so and my job (as a teacher) allowed me to spend ALL my breaks in the UK. Needless to say, we were married in April 2012, and he applied for his US visa which was approved in October 2012 and we've been living happily ever after ever since! I just love hearing stories of online relationships and long distance relationships that have happy endings like mine! Just warms your heart :)
Mar 24, 2013 2:43AM
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Well, you told how old she is, but how old is he?

 

Mar 24, 2013 11:05PM
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Not to rain on their parade or anything but my husband and I met 4 years ago while being randomly paired up playing Farkle on Facebook. He is from Scotland and I from Missouri. We chatted, messaged, and skyped for 6 months before deciding to meet. The rest as they say is history. We are still in the process of getting him to the US after being married for almost 2 years. This couple knows nothing of distance. Try being apart for a year after you get married to deal with visa paperwork and then tell me you are still in love. Someone should write a story about us and the battle we are going through with immigration. I do hope this couple lasts but it is hard for me to sympathize with them when I know what a true long distance relationship is.
Mar 24, 2013 3:46PM
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two of my IG friends met and got married because of Instagram.  Someone should write an article about them....  @itisjoy & @rayray74
Mar 24, 2013 3:25PM
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I was 54 she was 57.... a friend set us up as a blind date...this May will be 23 years  for us. Blind dates do work, at least for us. Love is truly a many splendored thing!
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