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Man hits the streets seeking 'wealthy wife'

Meeting a companion can be hard, so one man is using extreme measures to try and make a love connection.

By Charyn Pfeuffer - MSN Living Editor Sep 6, 2013 8:02PM

Some people will go to extreme lengths to find a suitable companion. Fifty-six year old Robert Darling is one of them.

For the past 12 years, the bachelor from New Jersey has been making a weekly trip to Manhattan in hopes of making a love connection, reports The Wall Street Journal. To publicize his single and ready to mingle status, the bachelor parades a sandwich board that reads: “I’m looking for a wealthy lady to be my wife,” along with his phone number and email.

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Sure, everyone has their reasons for entering a relationship. Some do it for love, others for money. And although the recently unemployed Darling has never been in a serious relationship, he’s pretty clear about his intentions.

He wants a woman with a net worth of at least $750,000 who’s smart, has a sense of humor and likes listening to the English rock band Genesis.

So far, Darling’s creative advertising tactics have landed him exactly one date – with a women who wanted him to get hitched to a friend so she could get her green card.

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“The odds may not be great, but they might be better than any other way,” Darling told The Wall Street Journal. ”I’m still very hopeful. I’ll never give up.”

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Sep 9, 2013 4:58PM
That's so tacky!  And what makes him think that there is a woman with $750,000 just waiting for his invitation.  This guy is smoking or snorting some very strong stuff.  Geez, what's this world coming to???
Sep 9, 2013 2:12AM
Sep 8, 2013 5:11AM
My wife blew thru 700k in 11 years. Robert, aim way higher.
Sep 8, 2013 5:08AM
He needs a better sign with some class ....until that poor ratty sign gets fixed I don't see a wedding :)
Sep 7, 2013 11:54PM
He needs to grow a pair and man-up!
Sep 7, 2013 11:48PM
As soon as the women find out he's from NJ, they run away!
Sep 7, 2013 7:37PM

Well..........at least he is honest.  Maybe he should put the sign over his head??

Sep 7, 2013 6:52PM
If the guy is a US citizen he will have no problem finding a mate. I bet even with little Spanish knowledgement he will find someone.
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