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The Exact Time Women Crave Sex: 11 p.m., Saturday

Bad news if you're in bed by 10.

By Kristin Wong May 10, 2012 2:52PM

Photo: Chris Clinton/Lifesize/Getty ImagesMark your calendars: a new study in the United Kingdom revealed that women's sexual appetite peaks at 11 p.m. on Saturdays.

Makes sense for a lot of us. The stresses of the workweek are gone, and by that time, you've probably had a glass of wine or two.

Women's Health surveyed 1,000 women and found that more than three quarters of them were satisfied with their sex lives, but a great deal of them also blamed their busy work schedules for ruining the mood.

But they seem to be enjoying coitus one way or another—and not just in the bedroom. Forty percent of women said they took their lovemaking to the great outdoors, saying it was the "most exciting" way to enjoy sex.

According to The Huffington Post, Women's Health editor Farrah Storr said:

"It is great to see that the majority of British women are satisfied between the sheets, or outside, as our Women’s Health sex survey reveals."

So how does this study compare with other research?

Russian website Pravada reported that the best time for women to feed their sexual appetites is between 8 p.m. and 10 p.m. They wrote:

"A woman is full of energy (if she ate her dinner well) and ready to act on her own initiative."

They add that, by midnight, women's melatonin levels go up dramatically, and she's ready for bed.

But why doesn't age come in to play in these studies? Because a few years ago, I was up and kicking until the crack of dawn on the weekends. These days, my melatonin levels go up right around the opening credits of Saturday Night Live.

Men are known to enjoy lovemaking first thing in the morning, with sex therapist Arlene Goldman, PhD, confirming the stereotype. She told Cosmopolitan:

"Many men are at their horniest first thing in the morning."

Thanks, doc.

But Pravada says a wake and shake doesn’t work for most women.

"The melatonin level (the sleep hormone) is still too high while her body temperature has not yet gone up."

Last year, the London School of Economics reported that Thursday morning is the best day and time for couples to have sex. Researchers said that was the time when natural cortisol energy levels, which stimulate sex hormones, are at their peak.

But schedules vary, so obviously, these studies don't speak for all of us.

Photo: Chris Clinton/Lifesize/Getty Images

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May 10, 2012 5:27PM
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to quote Billy Crystal "Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place."
May 10, 2012 6:45PM
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I had hot sex three times last night. Too bad there wasn't anyone around to enjoy it with me.
May 10, 2012 8:03PM
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so that's the problem...... i need to wake my wife to to tell her she's horny.
May 10, 2012 6:21PM
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I don't do sex by the clock or calendar.   I just do it.
May 10, 2012 6:36PM
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what a sexist article from the get go.  of course written by a woman.  So when are women in the mood..... the story teller writes, but states men are the horniest first thing in the morning...   Trouble is men have been brainwashed for years by women.  Today laws are made to enforce womens rights even if they are married. No means no.  The way this is created a woman controls if, when and how often.  That is Bunk!!  Women can control the above, but can't have their cake and eat it too.  They canNOT dictate when, if and how often men can have intimacy.  If a woman doesn't want to have sex fine, but don't tell the man he has to sit around and wait for princess to decide if and when he can.  Men have to rethink this.  If a woman wants to keep the marriage monogamous then keep the man happy.  Some women punish men by withholding intimacy.  Confucius stated, Woman who puts man in dog house soon find man in cat house.  Men who allow women to dictate if and when they can have intimacy are fools.  You are giving power to women.  We can't force women to have sex. Women can't force us to be celibate.  Simple.
May 10, 2012 6:33PM
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I'm a woman aaaand I'd be happy with anytime!
May 10, 2012 6:05PM
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This study is inconclusive, what about women that stay home. the ones that don't have a monday through friday schedule, besides if a men treats a women right and know her emotional needs, a woman would want to have sex anytime time of day not only on specifics day and time. conclusion incomplete and absurd  study.
May 10, 2012 5:39PM
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With my right hand I can have it anytime I want with no cost!
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