We asked real men about the ways they demonstrate their feelings to the women in their lives. Read on to learn how they show they care.

Kent Bradley Rogerson//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"(© Dan Hallman\Glamour)

"I'll plan something special for her totally on my own. The key is not having to be asked to do it."—Kent Bradley Rogerson, 39

Photo of Wilfred U. Codrington III//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"(© Dan Hallman\Glamour)

"If I am in love with a woman, I'll sing to her. A song by Brian McKnight or Boyz II Men does the trick."

—Wilfred U. Codrington III, 25

Photo treatment of Gonzalo Curbelo//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"//Photo Illustration: John Euland(Image © Dan Hallman\Glamour\Glamour)

"I spoil her — I cook for her, I clean for her, I do it all."

—Gonzalo Curbelo, 30

Photo of Riad Fayad//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"(© Dan Hallman\Glamour)

"I tell her! It's important to express your feelings. Women can't read minds."
—Riad Fayad, 28

Photo of Martin Cuevas//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"(© Dan Hallman\Glamour)

"I let her pick the activities she wants. I've even been to the ballet. That is how much I loved someone. Ballet to me is like hell on earth!"

—Martin Cuevas, 35

Photo of Matt Thielen//"How Can You Tell a Woman You Love Her?"(© Dan Hallman\Glamour)

"Sometimes you just go through the motions with sex. But with my girlfriend, I really work to give her what she wants."

—Matt Thielen, 34