Usually a woman won't be into you if you are any of the following: you're unemployed, needy (physically and emotionally) treat people in service jobs poorly (berate or belittle a waitress or maid), smoke too much, drink too much, have issues with drugs, you're a compulsive liar, gambler, cheater or thief, you won't stand up and fight for her (with your friends, family or in public if someone disrespects her), you're too attached to your mother--40 and STILL living at home, you talk incessantly about your ex-girlfriend, you would rather watch sports all weekend than take her out, you have really BAD hygiene, you're moody or violent, you're bad with money, you are mean to children, animals and old people, you have no manners (you sit around belching, farting, cracking your knuckles and talk with food in your mouth), you've got nothing to talk about (work, books, movies, hobbies etc.) you're a convicted sex offender/child molester or you're too good looking. Yes, that's right; no woman wants to date a man who when they go out on a date and he excuses himself to use the restroom has a dozen women hitting on him or shoving their phone numbers in his pants before he gets halfway to men's room. Or worse, have women walk up to the table and start flirting with your date in front of your face (HELLO--I'm sitting right here! I can see and hear you hitting on my date!) I have actually run the gauntlet of undesirable guys. I didn't marry until I was 30 and found a wonderful guy I could love, respect and relate to. He in turn, loves, respects and relates to me--we're best friends and have been married 20 years.
