50 Signs He’s Not That Into You
You may not want him groping you on the street, but if he won't even hold your hand or put his arm around you when you're out in public, then he may have serious reservations about you and the relationship.
If you've been dating for awhile and he still introduces you as his "friend," it may be time to talk about the status of your relationship.
Let’s do lunch
You propose a romantic candlelit dinner at an intimate little bistro. He suggests you do lunch instead. Consider that a red flag.
Everyone gets busy, but everyone also has caller ID these days. If he repeatedly fails to answer his phone when you call, your timing probably isn't the only thing that's bad.
Cuddling cut short
If holding you and being intimate after sex now falls somewhere below checking the messages on his phone, watching Letterman, or just falling asleep, it may be time to put the relationship on hold.
If you stay at his place a couple of times a week and he still hasn't cleared closet and dresser space for you, or invited you to stash a toothbrush and some makeup in his bathroom, he may be thinking of the relationship as a convenience rather than a commitment.
Are most of your dates with this guy spur-of-the-moment? Last-minute invitations may seem exciting and spontaneous at first, but as an ongoing pattern they may be a sign that you're not the first person he thinks of when he's making plans.
If you're nowhere to be found on any of his social media pages -- no photos of you on Facebook, no mentions of you in Twitter -- it could mean he isn't ready to publicly declare his interest in or connection to you.
If he has traditionally picked up the check when you go out, and then suddenly suggests that you start sharing expenses without offering a reasonable explanation for the change, he may be saving up for a new girlfriend.
Lack of initiative
If you're forced to be the social director in your relationship because your guy almost never suggests an activity, plans a date or makes it clear that he wants to see you on a particular day, he may be unconsciously backing away because he's not really interested in you.