Start the romance before you get home
To make your Valentine’s Day even sexier this year, make foreplay a part of the romance while you and your partner are still out on the town. Flirting, teasing and touching—and the anticipation they ignite before you get home—are the surest ways to heat things up once you’re behind closed doors.

Any public displays of affection that won’t embarrass you or your partner are fair game. Just remember how you felt and acted when you and your partner were falling in love, and you’ll know what to do.


Try a few new moves
Sex can start to feel a little routine after you and your partner have been together for a while, no matter how passionately you love each other. The solution to that problem is change:  a change of technique, a change of venue, maybe even a figurative change of partner through role playing.

You don’t have to re-enact the entire Kama Sutra to spice up your love life. Sometimes just a few small changes can make all the difference. Try a position that’s new for both of you, get creative during foreplay, or find a location that adds an extra thrill to your lovemaking. Some couples enjoy dressing up in costumes or taking on various character identities and acting out steamy scenarios.

Making your sex life more adventurous is a gift that you and your partner can give to each other on Valentine’s Day—and all year long.


Sample some sexy products
Another way to make your lovemaking less predictable and more exciting is to sample some of the great sexual aids that are available to couples.

You don’t have to push beyond your kinkiness comfort level to enjoy such pleasures. Try some mood music to enhance the experience for you both. Use a blindfold to help your partner focus on her sense of touch, and then break out some massage lube and give her a slow, sensual and increasingly sexy massage.