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Crazy dating trends we hope go away

With all the dating fads that emerge each year, finding love is quite the endeavor. From foodies to furries, here are some of the strangest dating trends we hope don't stay in vogue for too long.
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1. Pheromone parties

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Love at first sniff?

Pheromone parties are basically smell-based soirees for singles. Partygoers would take their sweaty T-shirts to the gatherings, where other singles would sniff them out in search of the perfect mate. Think it stinks? We found it a bit bizarre, too.

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2. Ghost dating

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Single and ready to online mingle? If writing isn't your forte, this new trend could be helpful.

"Ghost daters" assume the online identities of their clients—penning profiles, writing emails, and sometimes even engaging in online conversations with potential partners.  It may not be supernatural, but it's still somewhat spooky.

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3. Airport dating

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Layovers are a pain, but if you're single a new trend might offer some relief.

Something called "airport dating" recently saw a surge. Its website meetattheairport.com has reached 20,000 members worldwide. The idea is pretty simple—a stranded passenger looking for love is hooked up with a fellow traveler who happens to be at the same airport at the same time. Founder Steve Pasternack told MSN: "The airport is probably one of the safest public places to meet someone new.  Where else can you meet someone that was required to show several forms of identification and then go through a full body search?"

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4. Reverse commuting

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In 2012, city-dwelling singles flocked to the 'burbs in search of love. Dubbed "reverse commuting," the trend was especially prevalent in New York City, where women took the train all the way to Connecticut and New Jersey to find available men.  But why flee the big city for romance? As one woman told the New York Post: "In Connecticut, they’re just very normal, very sweet, very unassuming." As opposed to New York men, "they don’t have game. They’re steak-and-potatoes American."

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5. Dating school

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When it comes to playing the field, some of us aren't terribly gifted. If you find dating daunting, perhaps you should consider taking lessons.  Paula Rosdol is a dating expert who founded the "School of Love," a service that offers lessons in Courtship 101. "You’ll also receive supporting materials, recommended readings, and a summary report of recommendations," the school's website reads. Hey, at least the homework is fun.

Paula even offered MSN some of her love lessons, tuition-free.

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6. Dating as an art form

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Ukrainian artist Taras Polataiko decided to play matchmaker. He created an art exhibit that consisted of beautiful women sleeping. Oddly enough, men were free to visit the exhibit and kiss any one of the women. But there was a catch—they had to sign a contract that read, "If I kiss the Beauty and she opens her eyes, I agree to marry her."

But it was actually a woman who eventually woke one of the Beauties from her slumber. Ukraine doesn't allow same-sex marriage, however, so the contract was null.

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7. Building your dream partner

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Dating site iDreamofU.com allows users to build their dream guy or gal from the ground up—customizing everything from facial hair to personality. 

After you've put together your perfect partner, the site brags that it will "bring your dreams to life" by connecting you with singles who most closely match your creation. If Victor Frankenstein were single, he'd be all over this.

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8. Discriminatory dating

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Speed dating is nothing new, but dating organizations have been pretty bold with their stipulations. For example, one New York City-based company held an event for skinny people only, boasting that they were "checking labels at the door."

The event description read: "We all have relationship 'deal-breakers,' and that does not make us shallow; we're just single New Yorkers that know what we want and are attracted to."

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9. Faux girlfriends

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Lonely hearts have the option of renting a significant other. GirlfriendHire.com offers a "girlfriend-for-pay" service, in which available women are willing to perform "girlfriend-like services" for a small fee. Desperate men fork over five bucks for their requests, which has included everything from "be my fake girlfriend for 6 months on Facebook" to "break up with me over text message."

Similarly, Ian Zelesko, a single guy in Manhattan, offers his own boyfriend services: Rent-A-Get. His services included changing light bulbs, putting up curtains and fixing flat tires

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10. Doomsday dating

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The Apocalypse was postponed, but before they got the memo, some singles were desperately seeking a partner for the end of the world. In 2012, doomsday dating site Survivalistsingles.com quadrupled in members.

Dedicated to "preppers," "survivalists" and "doomsdayers," the site's slogan is: "Find love for less than the price of a box of bullets."

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Gabriel Miller
Jan 8, 2013 10:29PM
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I don't really think including furries in this was justified... It's not like there's just random people who are willing to go on only one kind of date and that's with someone else in a fursuit... For us, I'm sure we can agree as a majority that FurryMate is our own version of any of those other "one-title" dating searchers (there's one for blacks, christians, mormons, etc etc...). Just a thought. I personally don't mind one way or another, but I don't like seeing the fandom slammed indirectly for complete and utter ignorance. I can understand not agreeing with their methods, but seriously, those same people are usually furries, and not just random people with fursuits. In other words, they'd wear their suits out in public on a "normal" occassion, not just to go on a date.

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Kelly Dean
Jan 9, 2013 1:19AM
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I don't understand. If a consenting adult is looking for another consenting adult to be in a relationship with, who are you to tell them how they find each other? If they believe in something or like something specific, and they're willing to try a site, who are you to say they should stop it? 

I mean, rural dating? Really? You're going to criticize people from small areas who are seeking other people from small areas? They're looking for people they have things IN COMMON with. 

Who cares where they find love or how? You have no right to say any of these things should end. 
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nottheonlyslavesintheworld
Jan 9, 2013 3:28AM
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furry dating might be the most normal  a$$ thing on this list,    
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BlueBruce
Jan 9, 2013 12:22AM
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I live to see the day when someone makes a site stating-"Idiotic news articles that need to go away." How people date is their choice. This is nothing but a pathetic attempt to indirectly out those who have different lifestyle choices to feel more awkward. When did news start becoming more like facebook where they just simply post their opinions and not actually report relevant information? No one cares what you WISH would go away, I wish war and crime would go away but it won't will it? Do I post a long-winded article on a popular news site saying "NOW THIS NEEDS TO SIMPLY DISAPPEAR? I think not. Some of this isn't even relevant to Americans anyway, who gives a $hit how Ukraine does somethings on dating?
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Helen X
Jan 9, 2013 8:00AM
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Are you serious with this article? It is just as ignorant  as the close minded slack-jawed troglodytes who meddle in other peoples lives because they don't like gays. My brother happens to be a furry, and if I saw you coming up to him to harass him, I would hurt more than just your feelings. How does your entire house filed with synthesized hydrogen cyanide sound? Keep your prejudices before I start knocking on MSN employee doors until I find you.
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Jan 9, 2013 1:02AM
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Food focused dating, really how is that bad? Its an interest you have and most people want a partner with some of the same interests. Besides, food is awesome!
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Jan 9, 2013 8:07AM
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Honestly I do not give a ****. If it makes you happy and works for you all the more merry. I mean we live in a diverse world. It is only sites or where people of those choices like to meet. After all to each there own.
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Joey Allison (JoeyA76)
Jan 8, 2013 11:13PM
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FCUK MSN and its stupid articles. Who gives a FCUK  what you're tired of? One person's sexual preferences or dating habits has nothing to do with how you live any part of your life. It doesn't matter if someone finds another person attractive because of smell, shared interest in dressing in a costume ..or if they both want to lick nacho cheese off of a toilet seat while clipping the other person's toenails. It's their life and their relationship. You, I ...nor anyone else has ANY right to tell people that they are in the wrong because they don't want to find love the way that a "normal person" does. Idiots like you can stick to picking up drunks in a bar like a "normal person" and leave everyone else alone. Do you know what I want to see go away in 2013? Stupid MSN articles written by (what I can only assume are) middle school children.
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Jan 8, 2013 11:33PM
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I don't go to dating sites but I'm pretty sure there aren't many girls on them that look like this.
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Let just identify dating for what it is and stop being coy about it.  When two people say they are "dating", 99 times out of 100 they really mean "having sex".
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