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Principal: No ‘grinding’ at school dances

Officials increase security, change music.

By Rebekah_Schilperoort Oct 25, 2012 9:27PM

Brian McFeeley, principal at Mt. Lebanon High School in Pittsburgh, Pa., has declared a no “grinding” policy when it comes to school dances.

In a letter to parents, McFeeley described “grinding” as a style of dancing that “generally includes a male student rubbing up behind a female partner while both make a gyrating motion from side to side.”

Photo: John Lund/Annabelle Breakey/Getty Images"It's just not appropriate," McFeeley is quoted in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette. "It would be behavior we wouldn't condone in the hallways and at other events."

Officials told the Post-Gazette the ban is just one step the district is taking toward making the school safer. There have been issues with student drug and alcohol use at the last several school dances. One female student was even taken to the hospital for treatment of alcohol poisoning.

In a letter to Gawker, a Mt. Lebanon student lambasted the new policy.

“[…] I, like nearly the entire student body, feel that the banning on the style of dance that does not hurt anyone is quite absurd and think the administration should be focusing more on the small group of students that consistently shows up to dances completely trashed, which can potentially endanger many people's lives.”

Other measures taken to improve behavior at school dances include “adding slow songs to the playlist, changing the DJ, increasing the number of chaperones and hiring at least two police officers to work every dance.”

Tell us what you think: Has the principal gone too far?

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Oct 26, 2012 5:46PM
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Schools have to set standards of acceptable behavior for young people.  They are not running an adult sex club.
Oct 26, 2012 5:48PM
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Good for the principal, it's simply not appropriate in high school. If kids want to dance like that, go to a club outside of school.
Oct 26, 2012 5:45PM
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HAHAHA I love it.  I remember Grinding in High school that was in 99, I thought it was stupid, pretty much dry humping.  I can't believe no one has said anything sooner.  I guess the only problem now is that half the people there wont know what to do!  Learn to dance kids!!!!
Oct 26, 2012 5:56PM
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Good for that Principal...grinding is obscene and way too sexual for a high school dance. Either they stop that behavior or stop having dances if they just can't contain themselves. Kids need to learn what is and is not appropriate since they don't seem to learn it at home. 
Oct 26, 2012 6:04PM
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Finally a school principal who is brave enough to do the right thing and ban this behavior.  It's not dancing, it's dry humping somebody in public.  Get a room or do what we did in high school and hop in the backseat of your car on a gravel road someplace if you want to act like this. After all, they are teenagers.  It's time to start teaching today's young people that all behavior is not for public viewing and if their parents won't  teach them then it's up to other authority figures to step in.

Oct 26, 2012 5:59PM
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Learn to dance properly and you can have a lot of fun. There are a lot of dances out there so learnsome of them if you have the mentality to do so
Oct 26, 2012 5:59PM
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The article MAY have been interesting, but this site with all the loud obnoxious advertising ruined it.  Decided to leave a comment rather than read it.
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