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Kate applauded for not hiding new-mommy tummy

In contrast, Princess Diana’s caftan-like outfit hid the post-childbirth tummy bump in 1982.

By Associated_Press Jul 25, 2013 4:04PM

NEW YORK (AP) — As Kate and William showed off the royal baby, what caught the eye of many women was not the new heir to the throne but the duchess of Cambridge's post-childbirth silhouette: that little bump under her pretty polka-dot dress.

Britain's Prince William, right, and Kate, Duchess of Cambridge with the Prince of Cambridge as they pose for photographers outside St. Mary's Hospital in London on July 23.(AP Photo/Sang Tan, File)"I love that she came out and there was a mommy tummy. It was there! We all saw it!" said Lyss Stern of New York, who remembers turning down offers of a girdle and diet pills after her first child was born nine years ago.

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Stern, whose company Divamoms.com organizes events and product launches, added that Kate was sending "the right message," in stark contrast to Hollywood celebrities who are shown "three weeks after childbirth with a flat stomach and G-string bikini. That's not real."

In this June 22, 1982, file photo, Britain's Prince Charles, Prince of Wales, and wife Princess Diana take home their newborn son Prince William, as they leave St. Mary's Hospital in London. Princess Diana’s caftan-like outfit hid the post-childbirth tummy bump that is normal for any new mom. (AP Photo/John Redman, File)Even those who make a living getting new moms into shape applauded Kate. "I'm thrilled that she went out there like that, because we never see real mommy tummies," said Helene Byrne, a personal trainer in Oakland, Calif., who specializes in pre- and post-natal exercise. "When you see a magazine or photos of new celebrity moms, they're Photoshopped. They're fake! They're a big lie!"

The Daily Beast even ran a headline saying Kate's "unabashed baby belly busts the last taboo of pregnancy." Indeed, most celebrity new moms don't have their pictures taken until their tummies are flat again. And while the stars usually credit diet and exercise with making their bodies bikini-ready so fast, gossip and plastic surgeons often cite something else: the popular procedure known as a tummy tuck.

People magazine has an entire online archive devoted to "Body After Baby: Celebrity moms show off shockingly svelte figures after giving birth," but the magazine declined to comment Wednesday on the example set by Kate. Meanwhile, the summer's other celebrity mom, Kim Kardashian, has yet to be seen in public. Us Weekly reported that she won't leave the house until she's ready to "debut her post-baby body."

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Nobody can say whether Kate consciously chose to send a message that this is what new mothers really look like, or whether she didn't realize — or didn't care — how obvious her tummy would be. Either way, she unselfconsciously handed the baby off to her husband rather than using the newborn to camouflage her figure from the cameras and crowds when she emerged from the hospital Tuesday. And her form-draping dress was a contrast to the caftan-like outfit that hid Princess Diana's figure when she appeared publicly for the first time after giving birth to Will in 1982.

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Nancy Manister, who worked for 20 years as a maternity nurse and now teaches at Fairfield University in Connecticut, even noticed a moment during the photo op when Kate "clasped her hands together underneath the belly, and I thought, 'She's not trying to hide it.'" As for anxious new moms wondering when that bump will go away, Manister says, "It takes six weeks to lose 25 pounds, and a full year" to get your old body back.

Jennifer Moneta, who works in public relations in Dallas, gave birth nine weeks ago and was especially pleased that Kate made the post-partum silhouette "look very natural, as if that is what all moms can and should expect after having a baby." Moneta said that when she left the hospital, "I still looked five months pregnant, even though I only gained 20 pounds during pregnancy. My father even lovingly kidded me about it, saying, 'I didn't realize the baby was still in there.'"

Alison Jimenez, a fashion blogger in Astoria, N.Y., said she was "outraged" by comments from some Kate-watchers asking things like "Is she pregnant again?"

"This woman has just given birth. What was she supposed to do? Struggle into a pair of Spanx?" Jimenez said.

But some new moms do swear by girdles or their modern equivalent. Josephine Giraci, of Lloyd Neck, N.Y., says the best piece of advice she got before her first child was born 11 years ago was to pack a girdle in her maternity bag. She wore it for three months after giving birth: "I slept in it and everything."

One shapewear company, Hourglass Angel, wasted no time Wednesday emailing pitches showing a picture of Kate with the mommy tummy alongside ads for corsets and girdles as a way for women to "regain their body" and "feel even more beautiful."

Dr. Robert Atlas, an obstetrician-gynecologist at Mercy Medical Center in Baltimore, explained that the "bulge that women have after they deliver" is mostly loose skin and fat. He said breast-feeding can help new mothers lose the weight "due to extra metabolic processing," but he doesn't recommend girdles as a way to lose baby weight, though women who have cesarean sections do wear a binder-like accessory around their midsections to support abdominal muscles.

As he spoke, he was with a patient, Melissa Baker, of Ellicott City, Md., who gave birth just a week ago. Asked what she thought of Kate, Baker said, simply, "I liked that she didn't look perfect."

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Photo 1: Britain's Prince William, right, and Duchess Kate pose for photographers outside St. Mary's Hospital in London on July 23.(AP Photo/Sang Tan, File)

Photo 2: In this June 22, 1982, file photo, Britain's Prince Charles and Princess Diana take home their newborn son, Prince William, as they leave St. Mary's Hospital in London. Princess Diana’s caftan-like outfit hid the post-childbirth tummy bump that is normal for any new mom. (AP Photo/John Redman, File)

Aug 2, 2013 4:23AM
Why is this news?  I see the imminent decline of our civilization... More column inches to a baby than real news for weeks...

Aug 1, 2013 9:51AM
Leave her alone.  I thought she looks soooooooooo happy.  anyone who has had a baby knows what you look like and it takes about 6 weeks to get somewhere nearly being normal.  An entire year to get your body in shape.  Hope Kate doesn't listen to any critisim .... just keep that baby happy.  It is extremely rude of some people who I would like to see just what they look like.  Our Hollywood celebs need a good kick in their **** sometimes.... they are the rude ones .The weight that she put on makes her look absolutely great and healthy.   She got a little toooooo skinny for awhile.  Keep on some of that weight so that you look good Kate. 
Jul 31, 2013 11:19PM
Wow!  She's being applauded for what 'normal' women do everyday?  When will society stop putting certain women above what is normal? 
Jul 30, 2013 4:55PM
Kate is awesome for keeping it real!  (unlike a certian Kardashian)
Jul 30, 2013 11:58AM
I felt embarrassed and I was ridiculed by my husband for my post baby bump. I hope Kate's exampled helps prevent this happening to other women.
Jul 30, 2013 3:21AM
I think she looks fantastic...so natural after a pregnancy and delivery.  Shame on anyone who thinks you should look just like you did before baby.  The belly took 9 months to enlarge and in some cases will never go back completely the way it was because the skin has been stretched.  Bravo Kate! There are more important things to think about and enjoy right now.  Congrats to them both!!
Jul 29, 2013 8:52PM
Who cares!  She had a "healthy baby.  For one, because she is so THIN her stomach is  going to "attract" the most attention, because she wasn't OVERWEIGHT during the pregnancy.  I noticed it and felt that if it were me, I probably would have worn something more "loose fitting" but that's me.....
Jul 29, 2013 8:20PM

I think we need to look back at the fashions in 1979.  I had a baby that same year and

what Diana was wearing was what maternity dresses looked like back. it wasn't about hiding the bump it was the style at the time.


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